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but you have to be honest with yourself and know that they have no intention of being honest or objective and they only want to take what you give them, but never give anything back and in the relationships I’m seeking now that’s not anything I want to be a part of, it’s not a relationship. It’s a leach. I want somebody that can look at both sides of the problems and talk about it in a calm and. understanding manner, not blow up because they don’t get what they want immediately but look at the relationship and see they have to start giving because I have seen their character. They cannot be trusted.. and maybe that means I just don’t give them anything and they’re not gonna give me anything because whatever they say we’ll probably be a lie or a menace version of the truth with no understanding of anything, they have caused a partner and maybe they know internally, but they have to be of the verbalize it because that is how people communicate in relationship. I can’t read people’s mind and you can’t read mine so we have to tell people what we want and then we have to be willing to compromise, but they can’t be just one side always trying to rule the other without it becoming toxic. so they understand my boundary and these are the things I need before I will give more so there’s nothing for them to complain about until they either decide that is not worth it or authentically come and be forward in their communication.
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