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hi. i hope it’s not too weird for me to message you after all this time. i want to apologize for how i treated you in the past. my behavior was emotionally abusive. back then i saw myself as a victim but that wasn’t the reality. your actions towards me were simply a reaction to the mistreatment i subjected you to. i wish i had realized that i wasn’t healthy enough to be in a relationship at the time rather than putting you through what i did.
i’m sorry.
i know we were young but i still feel bad about it after all these years. i think of you sometimes and wonder how your life is going, and sometimes want to ask you, but i don’t know if that’s even wanted or appropriate.
anyway i know this is long overdue, but i was afraid it might sound like i was just trying to reopen that door or selfishly absolve myself. i hope it doesn’t come across that way. my intention is simply to give you the apology that you deserve. it’s ok if you don’t want to respond.
i hope you’re doing well. take care
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