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Thanks for replying and somewhat explaining your actions. But I know you it’s just your usual manipulative, gaslighting behavior - packaged in a bit more caring language this time around. You still haven’t given the reason for disappearing for days, and now you’ve managed to accuse me of not caring for you because I didn’t check in on you then. But - here’s the thing - I did. I could see you were online, posting stories to your IG, active on WhatsApp etc. You weren’t incapacitated. Your fingers were working well enough to be on social media, but you couldn’t manage a few seconds to ask me if I made it safely or how I was doing?!?! Now you’re trying to act like you were going through some major event that you can’t discuss, and that’s the reason I didn’t hear from you. I call BS.
But for the sake of closing this chapter - I’ll let you take this one. I thanked you for giving me clarity and wished you well. I’ll be on my way now. You may think that the clarity I have, is that I somehow accept your version and that you are the victim here. No, the clarity I have is that I dodged a bullet, because you are incapable of taking accountability for your actions, apologizing for your mistakes, and you lack the kindness and consideration I want in a partner (despite pretending to be that way before things blew up). I still care about, and have love for you; and I hope you are well. But I will keep that love from a distance and be on my way.
Goodbye….
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