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"My life got better when I realized I didn't have to be nice. Nice got me used, stressed out and disrespected. I'm not nice. I'm a good person. There's a difference."
And I think a healthier way to frame this is:
My life got better when I learned to balance kindness with self-respect. Being considerate is important, but so are healthy boundaries. I strive to be good-treating others well while also honouring my own needs and values.
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water has no effect on fake flowers
and that changed my entire mindset
regarding relationships.
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Shoulda, woulda and coulda are really messing with me.
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nothing I did was ever good enough 😔
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The older I get, the more I realize that someone making time for you is one of the clearest signs they care. Everyone is busy. Everyone has responsibilities and their own battles to fight. So when someone consistently chooses to spend their time with you, checks on you, and makes space for you in their life, it means…
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I would like to see you
And make sweet
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From now on, I dont need to impress anyone but myself. **** yall.
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