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I was polite at the end because that’s who I am, not because the date went well. It was exhausting. You talked at me, over me, ignored obvious signs I was uncomfortable, mocked me for wanting to leave. Then you made the ending about how I hurt your feelings? Girl, some of us have JOBS in the morning. Go ahead and mock me for wanting to go home on a school night.
The only reason I kept asking healthcare questions is because I thought it was the only safest subject LEFT. Even that wasn’t safe, cause you started talking crap on every clinic, manager and colleague you ever had.
You talk a lot about empathy and self-awareness, but I saw very little of either. I saw defensiveness, poor boundaries, and almost no reflection on your own role in the chaos you described.
I left politely because I was done. I hope I never see you again. Also, maybe post pictures on your profile that weren’t from 10 YEARS AGO.
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