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You know exactly why I stopped reaching out.
You got angry, lashed out at everyone, and said things that didn’t need to be said. Then somehow the people you hurt were expected to come back and convince you to apologize.
And we did.
We actually had to beg you to take responsibility for something you had already done.
Now you’ve decided to ghost the entire group, which is honestly fitting. Apparently disappearing is easier than having a conversation when nobody is willing to pretend you did nothing wrong.
I’m not angry anymore.
That part passed.
What’s left is the realization that I don’t want to keep chasing someone who thinks accountability is something other people have to negotiate out of them.
So if you’re wondering why I’m not checking in, asking what’s wrong, or trying to fix things this time—
you already know.
I’m not giving you another opportunity to make your behavior everyone else’s problem.
You wanted space.
You have it.
And I’m perfectly comfortable leaving it that way.
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