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So you are allowed to cry because it means you’re a human with a heart. If you cried last night it means you felt more than you allowed yourself to acknowledge. If you haven’t cried yet it means the full weight of what you chose hasn’t hit you yet, if you refuse to cry you will never know.
It doesn’t make you less of a man to cry, it makes you more of a man to allow yourself to be vulnerable. That bravery will only reward you with the strength you need to cope with the pressures and burdens you face.
If you find what you think you want and commit to it and they never see you cry and you realise you can’t cry near them, then you will realise you made a mistake and when you realise it’s too late to fix it, you will cry all those tears you held back for all those years and it will break you.
So just cry when you need to and cry when you want to because those feelings that bring those tears will just grow like mould and consume you if you refuse to cry and carry on being practical.
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